Pheromones & Romance

Whenever you are in a relationship, do you ask yourself, “Am I ready to commit to this person?”. Are you getting into a relationship for the benefits? Are you serious? or just looking around scouting for more dates? You should always take this two things into mind when considering getting into a relationship. Dealing with [...]

Communication is the river with which your relationship rides. Communicating with your matches allows your relationship to go through smooth sailing in love. However, like a real river, there would be some problems and trials that would cause turbulence in your journey. Different trials and turbulence would result in misunderstandings with your online matches. Couples [...]

Communication blocks or otherwise known as message blocks, are common when there is conflict between you and the other person on the line. Disagreements often mean that a wall is built as a defense mechanism that can inhibit one’s concentration on what the other person is really saying. This lack of concentration then results to [...]

Internet relationships are one of the relationships that many have successfully gone through and now they are happy living together with their partners. When you and your date have already felt such passion and love, and you are willing to surpass anything for them, then you would always want that relationship to grow. The thing [...]

So you have found the perfect date that totally made your heart beat fast and make you sweat tons and feel giddy all over. Now you have established great rapport online and have exchanged emails, chats and phone calls. Now is the right time for you to meet up in person. The ultimate test to [...]

Online Dating, like any other activity or event in this world, can be habit-forming. It’s good though if that habit has something to do with creating a schedule with your future date for communicating with each other. However, some habits are a bit more bad than others. One not-so-good online dating habit that you can [...]

“When you are a good listener, you can become a president of a nation,” said a famous president once during his speech. Gaining understanding of another person takes more than listening with our ears, but listening with our hearts. Just as what I have remembered from my classes back in my college years; my instructor [...]

Copyright © 2011 Dirk Sayers Not long ago, I ran across a provocative video featuring MIT Professor Sherry Turkle, a clinical psychologist. Her remarks in the video were about higher education, rather than online dating, but her observations have implications for women looking for meaningful relationships online. As a man who has been advising women [...]

Do you have close family and friends that you can always count on for a listening ear? Do you let them know about your love life? Do you open up to them about what kind of man you are looking for? And more importantly, are you close enough with them to be open to the [...]

Copyright © 2011 Dirk Sayers As the world of online dating has evolved, the natural result has been for the clever to get cleverer and the frustrated to become more frustrated. I read an article a while back that suggested that writers of profiles are now commoditizing themselves shamelessly…not to mention being more than a [...]