Our last newsletter discussed the
book, Body Language by Julius Fast.
http://www.attractromance.com/bodylanguage.html
When I read the book, I found an interesting section which
discussed the aggressive available woman. The book mentioned
that this type of woman uses territorial intrusion to make
her point. The author states, "She will sit uncomfortably
close to the man she is after, taking advantage of the uneasiness
such closeness arouses." Basically she try's to make
the man uncomfortable to get his attention. She may touch
him, but the man cannot touch her.
I can relate to that.
Not too long ago I went to a trade show. At that time I was
walking with crutches and was very uncomfortable. Earlier
that day I had placed Beaches on my forehead, chin, nose and
on my chest. I always wear Beaches and sometimes forget that
I have it on.
I walked the entire exhibit which was held in a very large
building. I was tired and sweating because of my physical
condition. I couldn't wait to finish the show.
I covered most of the exhibits. Toward the end of the show
I came to an exhibit hosted by a beautiful young woman who
was probably about 23 years old.
I talked to her about the products she was representing.
I also mispronounced several key words that her product helped
with. She did not seem to be phased. I thought she would kind
of look down on me because of my speech impediment. I asked
if she was a model who had been hired to market the exhibit's
products. No, her mother actually owned the company. As the
conversation went on, I found out she also had brains besides
her beauty. She recently graduated from college.
As our conversation continued, I noticed that she seem to
be moving closer to me. Mind you, during this time I did not
intentionally try to hit on her. In fact my attitude was "I
just want to go on" and I was not showing any immediate
interest in her or for that matter personally interested in
her. I like to preserve my marriage. Besides the wife is proof
reading this!
Anyway, the more she talked, the closer she got. Then she
started to touch me with her hand on my shoulder and my back.
The situation seemed so hot, I could almost feel her body
heat! I was starting to get a little uncomfortable with her
close proximity. I was thinking to myself, what is going on?
However, I kept my composure. Now her eyes were looking straight
at mine. I have been in these situations before. Just out
of habit I was able to keep eye contact.
I had forgotten that I was wearing Beaches. Was it the Beaches
that created this strong physical reaction in this women?
Oh yea.
I wanted to move on, but at the same time break contact gracefully
with this gorgeous woman.
So I told her that I market pheromones. She then explained
to me, "Now I know why I feel like I do. No wonder I
feel so horny. I feel like renting a bunch of X-rated movies
and going home to watch them." I then replied, "The
reason you feel like you do is because my essence has effected
you." Now that reply was not true. Perhaps BS on my part.
I simply forgot that I was wearing Beaches.
About this time her mother showed up. Nothing would have
happened between this woman and me, because that is my choice.
But it could have!
However this situation was a perfect situation of territorial
intrusion by a women. Body language, folks. It works, and
it works better with a sexual attractant like Beaches.
Regards,
Lawrence Uneet Ticotin
President
Uneet Co. Inc.
http://www.attractromance.com