Survey Question:
What obsessive things did you do in a relationship that made the other person run?
Responses
said i wanted to see others
i like to make a friendship with forever & foraver
I was obsessed with sex and wanted it all the time.He ran, because he
couldnt keep up with me. :)
Ask for phone number and/or commitment too quickly. I also tend to open up to people to quickly which makes them think I am too impulsive and want too much too quickly. I am also gaiving to a fault which has the same effect.
I called the person to much
I CALLED HIM . I WANTED TO GET TO KNOW HIM AGAIN BUT SO FAR HE HAS ONLY
CALLED ONCE. I THINK I SCARED HIM .LOL HIS NAME IS …... AND I WAS
SO IN LOVE WITH HIM . I JUST WANT TO KNOW HIM AGAIN
1. Smoking 2. talking too much 3. Jealousy 4. not focusing on him 5. flirting
with guys
I HAVE A JEALOUS STREAK IN ME. NOT ONLY THAT MY FAMILY IS VERY PSYCH
IF THAT.
I would call him and then not let him get off the phone when he said he
had to go. And I totally laid the guilt trip on him and was like "Oh
My GosH!! You Don't like me do You!?! If you did you'd stay on the phone
with me" I was so mean... but we're still together.
all any female has to do is mention marriage more than once and the man
will run.
Nothing. I am not a obsessive person cause I don't want anyone being
obsessive toward me.
ALWAYS WANTING TO KNOW WHERE HE WAS. CHECKING OUT HIS CELL PHONE FOR NUMBERS
AND CALLING THEM BACK TO SEE WHO IT WAS.
ask too many questions, i am too paronoid
I got caugth with another girl and my girlfriend dume me so every six
months I would call her and tell her to have her fun because I was going
to marry her she said not if I was the last man on earth so I keep calling
every 6 month
...not only did I compare him to my ex constantly, I stood in his face and gave him an ultimatum...knowing I was describing godlike qualities(that-and we only been seeing each other for about 4 days!!!!) OOPS!!!
Needed too much attention.
Being newly divorced. I talked about the ex and how bad things use to be.
I Either paid to much attention or not enough attention.
I was in this relationship with a guy who I didn't want to be with anymore.
So I purposely drove him away because he was very sensative and if I broke
up with him he'd probably cry or something and I didn't wantt o have to
be the one who caused him to cry. Anyways I kept trying to get on his
nerves so he'd break up with me. I would call him every other 30 min.
just to talk about something stupid.....like school. (Not sometihng u
should talk about with someone ur in a relationship with) I would give
him notes that said how much I wanted to be with him and how I wanted
to spend the rest of my life with him. The thing about that was I made
sure his friends were around and then they'd tease him about the love
notes and stuff. After a day or two of major obsessiveness he finally
broke up with me. He even used the line "it's not u it's me."
LOL! Even though it was totally me.
tell them they had to changes their ways
It's really easier to be yourself instead of acting the opposite of what
one feels. The rules of attraction are if one thing does not work then
the extreme opposite will! I am slightly obsessive compulsive, but no
more than the average normal human being. I would touch a finger to my
thumb, and would count in fives from 1 to 4, and 5 to 1 until every finger
had touched my thumb. I would catch myself doing this, and I would stop
on the second to the last digits. I would think about it for a few seconds,
and then realize it did not matter whether or not I completed the last
step. Then she would ask "What are you DOING"? "Counting"
was always my answer! I would make my own words for the show we were watching
which was funny half the time to her. If she really wanted to watch a
show it would be in the other room or I would shut up out of respect.
I basically continued to be myself instead of what she expected. The take
it or leave it attitude with just a hint of interest which always seems
to work. I would avoid her, and when confronted act exactly the same as
she did when she was leaving me! This always works as long as the other
person still has attraction for you. I would live my life as if we had
just met again to let her know that I have my own life, and she would
come running back. Go figure!
i think the been to affectionately with your parner will make this person
run away, because the person will never know if you love her (him) or
if your love is real been that you don't give a time or space to the person
to think on their own, it like you are trying to be sure if you love that
person o if that person will ever love you so this will create a mental
conflict and the person will get tied of the relationship. also been to
manipulative because the person will fill like you think they are not
good enough for you, because they have to do everything in order to your
satisfaction and no to their own.
Was to helpful. He said it was like dating his mother
maybe mother them too much... or call them before they call me. I am not
as independant as they would like me to be.
I became overly possessive and extremely jealous. I was always suspicious
of my partner. I would deliberately pick a fight and accuse him of cheating
on me.
Calling all the time, everyday 2 or 3 times a day.
I let her know I wanted to spend 24/7 with her and I showed it.
DEMANDED HOURLY SEX SATISFACTION
wanting his time and attention to much or to often. all and all wanting
him to talk to me. answer my questions that would help me know more about
him.
I told her everyday I loved her, I sent her some kind of gift every week, we took time to go to supper at least twice a week, we spent weekends doing the things she planned, I did the dishes for her when I was invited for supper while she made coffee and we talked. I was ready to do anything sexually she wanted, and then I was dumped for a beer bellied slow talking pot smoking, Appalachian country boy who took one shower a week... straight up truth..
I am unsure but my guess is that I truely loved the guy and that he could
not understand or wanted no paart of this kind of relationship.
Well I fell in love with her!
tried to get to close to fast without reading the other persons feelings.
im sick of her on the computer talking to other guys about having sex
and showing them her breast
I met them.
I cheated and drank stayed out some times until morning and could not
and would not be controled. I am also very absentmined.
tried to be controling pushy called too much stopped by too much over
bearing threw myself at them
french kiss sex and evrything make out
by kissing her on the lips and neck.
lets see here i think with me its the fact that i am too straight forward.
that i like to tell the man what i think what he does is great and how
he makes me feel when i am around him.at least thats what i am doing now
and it seems to make him not be around me too much. i dont tell him i
love him only because that just makes it worse!! that even scares me to
say it!telling him about what happened before in the last relationship
maybe.especially when he asks.i am still trying to figure that one out!
they ask but they really dont want to know??that confuses me!they want
a relationship but then they want a friendship at the same time? i am
trying just be me and let them know i can make it on my own. that scares
them too. why? i dont know that either. yet they dont want someone to
be dependent on them. go figure!!so where do i fit in i ask?what part
do i play in his life. the not ready for committment really confuses me.they
are happy to see you and then when they are finished they are ready to
get rid of you?confusing in every way.i like to give all i can to a man
when i feel i need to, then that seems to scare them! i never know which
way to turn. men are not the way they use to be before. they stuck to
one way and then you knew where you stood. nowadays i dont know which
way to go either i back off and no talk to them or talk to them and they
back off.i am very out going and love to be around men all my friends
are men i have one best friend as a woman in a different town and i have
a best friend who's a man!!so which one of these scares him? the fact
that i get alone with him and we doing good then after were together he
wants to bolt!
masturbation
Nothing, I like to take care, cuddling and give a lot of love
1. bought flowers
I don't think it is obsessive of me. I want a relationship to be more
then sex and watching TV. He wanted to be a homebody,and that is boring
very boring to me.
My ex-girl thought that I touched her too much. Perhaps I did, I always
loved to run my fingers thru her hair, or very gently and softly massage
her back,arms or legs depending on the situation, it was very dificult
to stop. She told me it made her feel as if she were my pet, however she
did enjoy my massages very much.
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